The Yizkhor bukh fun der Zhelekhover yidisher kehileh (Chicago, 1953) shows a Black Wedding taking place in Zelechów during the time of the Holocaust. |
This article explores the very strange practice of performing a Shevartzeh Chaseneh or Black Wedding at a Jewish cemetery. It entailed the conducting of a legal wedding ceremony between two people in the belief that such an event would appease the dead to intercede on behalf of the community and halt a crisis such as a typhus epidemic. I have drawn extensively upon the writings of Hanna Wegrzynek[1] who has researched this very strange yet quite common phenomenon and has traced it roots and origins.
Some documented
cases
Lublin 1892
On the first of
September 1892, the Gazeta Lubelska[2]
recorded two weddings that had taken place the previous day at Lublin’s Jewish
cemetery. The weddings involved a strange ritual where
four young women, probably the bridesmaids, were harnessed together and
ploughed up fields just outside of the town. Another related ritual involved
the illegal release of water from the city reservoir and its barrier chains
were seized and buried in the cemetery.
Opatów 1892
Around the same
time, another Shevartzeh Chaseneh took place in the town of Opatów,
where the cemetery was the venue for the wedding seuda or feast, as well
as the dancing. The local belief was that the epidemic ended just a few days
later.
The Yizkor
Buch or Memorial Book of the Ryki community, which chronicled the
local events, also records similar Black Weddings having taken place.
Dziennik
Narodowy 1916
In 1916, the Dziennik
Narodowy or National Daily News, also recorded another Shevartzeh
Chaseneh probably also in Lublin.
“Yesterday something occurred in our town that clearly attests
to the truly shocking ignorance prevailing within the local Jewish population.
Among the Jewish masses in provincial towns of the Kingdom of Poland, the
superstitious belief has survived that any kind of epidemic may be combatted by
holding a wedding at a cemetery. This superstition is held also by Jews here in
our town, and since the typhus epidemic is spreading almost exclusively in the
Jewish neighborhood, the decision was made to make use of some salutary means.
And whom to marry off? A young couple was found. They did not know each other
before. Both are poor. Several hundred rubles were collected from the local
Jews and a wedding was organized. From this amount, 200 rubles were set aside
as a dowry, and the rest went to cover the cost of the wedding. A crowd of
several thousand people set off for the cemetery-wedding celebration. A canopy
was erected and the cemetery fence was measured off with a white cloth, which
was then handed to the “bride.” Bed linens and underclothes for the newlyweds
were to be sewn from this material. When the measurements were finished, the
wedding ceremony was conducted, after which the crowd returned to the town,
secure in their belief that they had taken ‘the only [possible] step’ toward
staving off the epidemic (cited in Wegrzynek 2011:55)”[3]
The obviously vitriolic
tone of this account does not detract from the general content which appears to
be uncontested and factual. The purpose of the white cloth was, for mystical
reasons, to demarcate the specific area of focus in the cemetery in which the
ceremony took place.
Biłgoraj,
Kamieniec Podolski, Zarki and Lwów 1920
According to
Wegrzynek (2011:56):
Memorial Books from Biłgoraj, Kamieniec Podolski, as well as an
individual account by Eli Zborowski regarding Zarki, mention similar weddings
during or after the First World War. A cemetery wedding involving local elites
was performed in Lwów in April 1920.
Most
interesting is Wegrzynek’s (2011:56) description of
the Shevartzeh Chaseneh which took place in Lwów
involving “leading rabbis”:
“In this case, special invitations were printed in order to
ensure that leading rabbis and other important local personages would take
part, an indication that such weddings were not restricted to the common folk.
In fact, it was a hallowed custom: it was to take place ‘according to an
age-old tradition to appease God’s anger when pestilences are raging.’”[4]
New York 1918
Another Shevartzeh
Chaseneh was held in 1918 in New York, in an attempt at warding off
the Spanish Flu.[5]
Zelechów, Warsaw during the Second World War
Wegrzynek (2011:64) shows how Black Weddings were still being practiced up to the Second World War, when:
“Attempts were made during the Holocaust to hold Black Weddings
in ghettos to combat typhus epidemics. One
such ceremony was held in Zelechów (see
photograph above).”
There was also
an attempt to hold a Black Wedding in Warsaw, as Adam Czerniaków, head of the
Warsaw Judenrat, records:
“Yesterday I was inoculated against typhus a second time. My
blood test showed a negative reaction, which meant that I could fall ill with
typhus. A few months ago, the rabbis proposed to me that a wedding should be
celebrated at the cemetery. In their opinion, this would help combat the
epidemic (Wegrzynek 2011:64-5).”
Questioning the
authenticity of these accounts
Many find this notion
of a Black Wedding very strange and macabre and claim that it is impossible
that such ceremonies could have ever taken place, but Wegrzynek (2011:57)
writes:
“…Black Weddings unquestionably flourished among the Jews of east
central Europe, particularly in the area which until the late eighteenth
century was part of the Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth, and which today comprises
Poland, Belarus, and Ukraine.”
The mechanics
of the Black Wedding
It was believed
that the dead sometimes put curses such as cholera and typhus on communities
and that the only way to stave off the epidemic was to appease them by
conducting an actual wedding ceremony at the cemetery.
The bride and
groom were usually either very poor or infirm and money for the celebration was
collected from the wealthier members of the community. In this way, while
benefitting the community as a whole, it was also deemed a “mitzva”,
because they were helping people who otherwise would not have been able to have
such a lavish wedding.
There was also
another very sad usage of the Shevartzeh Chaseneh and that was in a case
where a bride-to-be died before the proposed wedding. The custom was then to
take a black wedding canopy to her funeral in the belief that it would bring
joy to her soul. In this instance, it was called a Shvartzeh Chuppah
instead of a Shevartzeh Chaseneh.
Origins of the
practice
Wegrzynek
(2011:57) points out that it is not all that easy to trace the origins of this
practice. Some claim it began soon after the Chmielnicki massacres of 1648.[6] On
the other hand, ethnographic accounts from the early twentieth century suggest
1771 as the date the first Black Wedding took place, in the town of Berdichev.[7]
Some suggest
the custom may have been adapted from some similar Slavic or Christian
practices that also involved cemetery visitations. However, Wegrzynek (2011:60)
rules out Christian influence because:
“Many of the Slavic rituals which closely resemble Black
Weddings are known solely from early medieval sources, and seem to have been
completely eradicated after the Middle Ages owing to the Church’s
Christianizing initiatives.”
So, if the
custom did not originate after Chmielnicki, and if it did not imitate a Slavic
or Christian practice, then where did it come from?
Wegrzynek (2011:58) sums up the historical
evidence as follows:
“One can only say that all extant accounts—whether ethnographic,
literary, journalistic, or iconographic—originate from the second half of the
nineteenth century and the first half of the twentieth, even if they refer to
earlier centuries…but its relative frequency is suggested in manifold
references in various types of literature.”
Essentially
this means that people only began to refer to Black Weddings from as late as
the mid-1800s, although the practice may have already been ongoing for some
time.
Wegrzynek
(2011:62) concludes that the custom must have been connected to certain beliefs
of the Chassidim:
“It must be recalled that the Jews of east central Europe had
their own rich tradition of magic-related practices and demonic beliefs,
sometimes brought over with them from German-speaking lands and sometimes
derived from kabbalistic literature…
Such practices could also be found among Jews in early modern
Poland.[8]
Hasidism, which emerged during the latter half of the eighteenth century out of
Podolia (contemporary Ukraine), was predicated on the belief that specially
endowed individuals could move between earthly and supernal realms. Hasidism
perpetuated popular beliefs in demons and spirits that could harm the living
and even take control of their bodies.”[9]
This idea seems
to be corroborated by the fact that Black Weddings were observed primarily in
areas where Chassidism was flourishing:
“It was probably no coincidence that the ritual of the Black
Wedding was observed in Podolia, Volhynia, eastern Galicia, and northern
Małopolska, areas where Hasidism was very influential. In contrast, there are
no accounts of Black Weddings in northern Lithuania, where Hasidism was weaker.”
Mystical
customs
As opposed to
the Maimonidean rationalist tradition which did not believe in demons and
cemetery rituals, mystical customs already existed that contained the seeds for
Black Weddings, such as the bride being encouraged to visit the graves of her
parents and to “invite” them to the wedding. There was the very popular belief
that deceased parents could intercede on behalf of the bride.
Furthermore,
the betrothed were considered dangerously susceptible to influences and
negative energies from spirits and demons, and that is why the custom arose to
accompany them and not leave them alone for eight days before the wedding.
According to The
Week Beforehand - Marriage (chabad.org):
“Every Jewish wedding is an event of colossal spiritual
importance, drawing down upon the couple — and by extension upon the entire
world — a transcendent Divine energy of the highest level. According
to Kabbala, this impending phenomenon can potentially elicit negative
spiritual energy, known as "kelipah," to combat it. The presence of
two Jewish souls, that of the bride or groom and their watchperson, is powerful
enough to repel any forces of kelipah which may strive to cause harm and
prevent the wedding.”
According to Shemira before the wedding – Shulchanaruchharav.com:
“The reason for this is because the time before the wedding Mazikim try to interfere with the couple. Having a guard prevents Mazikim from harming the Chasan or Kalah.”
“Mazikim” are believed to be demons or evil energies. The shomer or guardian is believed to act as a protection against such entities.
There was also the strange custom of measuring the length of a sick person with a thread and then to make a wick for a candle out of it and burning it in the synagogue, or to taking the candle to the cemetery and wrapping it in a shroud and then burying it.
All of these types
of mystical customs relating to “Mazikim”, demons, cemeteries,
susceptible brides and grooms were already in place and part of common practice
in many segments of the Jewish community. This being the case, it was not that
giant a leap to perform Black Weddings at cemeteries.
Further reading
For more on
possible influence from German-speaking lands, see Kotzk Blog: 228) CHASIDEI ASHKENAZ – ‘THESE ARE NOT
SUPERSTITIONS’!
[1]
Wegrzynek, H., 2011, “Shvartze khasene: Black Weddings among Polish Jews”, in Holy
Dissent: Jewish and Christian Mystics in Eastern Europe, edited by Glenn
Dynner, Wayne State University Press, Detroit.
[2]
Gazeta Lubelska 183 (1892): 1.
[3]
Dziennik Narodowy 55 (March 1916): 3
[4] Maksymilian
Goldstein and Karol Dresdner, Kultura i sztuka ludu zydowskiego na ziemiach
polskich (Lwów: M. Goldstein, 1935), 3.
[5] See
"When
a Cemetery Wedding Was Used to End the Spanish Flu", The
New York Times.
[6]
Viktoriya Mochalova, “Istselenie, spasenie, izbavlenie v evreyskoy traditsii i
magicheskaya praktika (evreyskiy obryad kladbishcheskoy svad’by i ego
slavyanskie paralleli),” Folk Medicine and Magic in Slavic and Jewish Cultural
Tradition (Moskva: Sefer, 2007), 95.
[7]
Ibid. 96.
[8]
Hundert, G., 2004, Jews in Poland–Lithuania in the Eighteenth Century: A
Genealogy of Modernity, University of California Press, Berkeley, 131–59.
[9]
Dynner, G., 2006, Men of Silk: The Hasidic Conquest of Polish Jewish Society,
Oxford University Press, New York, 143, 241.
Thank you for posting this. The nineteenth century Yiddish author Y. L. Peretz has a darkly comic story on this theme, where an epidemic is sweeping the country and everyone in the shtetl is praying it won't reach them, except one poor orphan boy who sees it as his only chance of getting married.
ReplyDeleteYes, besides the many anomalies connected to this practice is the way it negates the principle of assisting the needy without impinging on their dignity.
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